I think lots of folks have mixed feelings about all of this, me included. I want everyone on the spectrum of sexuality and gender identity to be seen as equal under the law - personally, I'd prefer that happen by the government only being involved in partnerships/unions in so far as the law would require for such matters as medical decisions, insurance, inheritance, etc. But since we already DO have the gov't involved in labeling and sanctioning marriage, then maybe that's where we need to start. I really don't know.