Filed under: marriage

The Marriage Myth: Why do so many couples divorce? Maybe they just don't know how to be married.

Gottman found that all couples -- those who are happily married into their rocking-chair years and those who divorce before they hit their fifth anniversary -- disagree more or less the same amount. He found that they all argue about the same subjects -- money, kids, time and sex chief among them -- and that for the average couple, 69 percent of those disagreements will be irreconcilable.
read it all here washingtonpost.com

really good stuff

this is why men get caught...

John Edwards sex tapes reportedly discovered.

Part of the appeal of having an affair must be people knowing....or the threat of being found out. Because sex tapes, undeleted text messages, emails, IM conversations etc. are the downfall of so many men. It doesn't seem to be the same for women who have affairs, which is why I'm singling out men.

be faithful. But if you aren't, do your partner a favor and make sure you don't get found out. Just sayin'.